Goals are just how important to your home therapy program? Extremely. It could mean the difference between great gains and small gains, or even between success and failure.
In his book, Look Within Or Do Without, Tom Bay revealed the results of a study conducted by Harvard Business School regarding its former students 10 years after graduation.
The researchers found that only 3% of these graduates had achieved financial independence. Only 3% could live well without living from paycheck to paycheck.
The study found that this small group who had achieved this amount of wealth all had one thing in common: they had written goals for themselves with step-by-step lists on how they were going to achieve them.
Remember, these people were not smarter than all the others. All the people in the study had graduated from Harvard Business School.
But the successful graduates had decided on target achievements for themselves and written them down. At best, many of the others who didn’t reach this level of success had only a general idea of what they wanted to achieve.
So it stands to reason that goal setting will help our children achieve greater success for what we want them to accomplish.
It may be that your child goes to school and has a teacher who, in consultation with you, writes her objectives in an Individualized Education Program, or IEP. Perhaps she also sees therapists who will write them for you.
These professionals will do the evaluating for you and talk to you about what you want your child to achieve over the next few months.
If that’s your situation, then all you have to do at home is to follow the standards that they have set by doing activities that will help her to reach them.
But if you are homeschooling and you are responsible for subjects such as reading, then you will need to write those objectives. Or if for some reason your child doesn’t see a therapist outside the home, you will need to write her objectives for therapy.
If you’re thinking, “Oh no, I have no idea how to do this or how to decide what these objectives will be,” don’t worry. It’s not really that hard at all. I’ll give you the help you need here on this page.
But first, it’s important to know the characteristics of good objectives.
Given 10 action cards, Mary will state the correct verb 80% of the time.
Johnny will articulate consonants in his vocabulary words with 75% accuracy.
Using an electric toothbrush, Joseph will correctly brush his teeth with minimal prompting.
Do you get the idea?
If your child doesn’t always make amazing progress, please be patient with him. It helps to learn to be happy with even small gains.
And it would really encourage our children if we make it a point to tell them how proud of them we are for all their efforts and for any progress they have made, whether that progress is slow or fast.
Love and praise are both so very motivating.
What’s more, our kids need to know that we love them regardless of what they achieve or fail to achieve.
I know that you can be successful in setting goals for your home program. And once you start following this procedure, I think you will be truly pleased with your child’s progress.
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